Have you ever met someone and had such a great
chemistry that it felt like you had known each other forever? I ask this, because
a little while back I met a guy from an online dating site and we had such a
great time together. Even though I was forty minutes late (That was the night I
realized people weren’t joking about traffic being horrible in LA. Didn’t help
that I got lost too.) and we were the only people at the bar it didn’t feel
awkward.
The thing was he was a bit heavier than his
pictures looked and he looked a few years older than he said he was. My type is
usually thin and tall; he was short and a little overweight. I really liked his
personality, but I just wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was hoping (as I
stupidly do too often) that if I hung out with him more that I would eventually
become attracted to him. After four more dates it become obvious that he really
liked me and I was just not that into him.
He would be a great male friend, but he said he
didn’t want to just be friends and so we are back to being strangers shopping
for love online.
